TheSacconeJolys – FAMILY WEDDING DRAMA
Friday, January 13th, 2012 at
5:13 am
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I definitely agree with what 16sweetpea said above. Tell them that they are invited on the condition that they? do not start any drama or fuss, and if they feel that they cannot do that and act appropriately, then you unfortunately do not want them there. It’s always sad when grown ups act like children, but they need to realise that they are acting ridiculously. The only thing that matters on your wedding day is you and anna.
I know exactly how you guys? feel! My fiance family hate me, they have harrassed me and theatened me etc, we recently got engaged and the drama started all over again. Don’t let it come between you too xx
242? comments and i hope yu see this….
can i be added to your internet family?! pleaseeeee your too cool
lol this is my first time seein you and your fiancée and im like
wow you guys are an amazing couple and your funny
and she is sooo supportive…can i please be added to the family =)
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I think you should invite the both of them, and hope that they can accept Anna and you, and you accept who he has choosen to share his life with. You and Anna are Beautiful, and this day is to celebrate your love for each other and? the life that you will share together. If they don’t attend, then it is their loss. Also, I think if you didn’t care, you wouldn’t be going back and forth with it in your mind. I hope it all works out. My boyfriend and I love you guys. Please follow your heart!
Hey Jonathan, I am 28 and have lost both my parents, and have always dreamed that they would share my wedding day with me. I think that if you do not send an invite you will always wonder “what if”. That way? it puts the ball in their court. I would certainly hope that they would see that you have grown into such a great man, and stop reflecting on your past. I did see the video after this, and how your stepmom acted, which is a shame, because you did nothing wrong. Wish you all the luck.
I know you already have your answer & this is a few days old but i think you & anna are amazing, i love your videos & the relationship between you two & the viewers.? I’m sorry about the messy situation though i know its difficult BUT your wedding will be beautiful regardless.
Hi Jonathan.
It’s a really hard situation, and I completely? understand your in two minds.
One; do you want to risk that the drama could kick off and happen again at your wedding and for it to be spoilt or from what you have said theres also a chance that he may not attend if you do invite him. It’s quite hard, invite him over for a weekend before the wedding and see if you can sort thigns through and if there’s still tension between you then dont invite him xx
aww jofus i’m so sorry you are going thru this, it honestly breaks my heart listening to your story. if you feel in your heart that you want your dad there, invite him. if he decides to go then great, if not then well it’s his loss. wishing for the best for all of you, and keeping you in? my prayers
god bless u!
just listen to? ur heart, and u will know it
sounds weird
Lets hope your Dad accepts the invite, shows up and quietly lets you and Anna have your beautiful day. Maybe he was stressed out on his wedding day and chit happened you know? Maybe your wedding? day can be a turning point in his life as he watches his son get married. But please Jonathanm, invite your Dad and let HIM make the decision, not you!
Jonathan! I have divorced and remarried parents with mean step parents too. When I got married my wedding planner gave me the best advise…IT’S YOUR DAY and that’s all that matters that day. Please send your father n his wife an invitation and let THEM decide if they want to go or not. If you don’t send them an invitation, YOU will forever be at fault and all the blame? is on YOU. If your father doesn’t show up after you sent the invite, well…it’s HIS fault.
Part 2 coming up….
Hi Johnathan. If youre not sure about inviting your father and his wife, why don´t you run some “test meeting” like a dinner in a restaurant and see how it turns out? Maybe they would like to reconciliate but don´t have the courage (or too much pride) to make the first step. You could be the wiser person and reach out a hand. If both parties aren´t wiling to forgive and move on you can? still decide not to invite them. Best greetings from Cologne
I believe that if someone doesn’t make you happy they shouldn’t be in your life….but you will always wonder that what if?? what if I invited him and he came and things got resolved….anyhu you should invite him and from his reaction? you can decide whether or not he should be in your life..because your starting a new chapter in your life and you should only have people there who love you!! I’m not old enough to be ur parent I’m 21 haha but thought I should share what I think!! Xx
It seems to me that you have nobody? in your life because of Ana. Its very sad.
Not a simple thing to decide, but what does your heart tell you? And what does anna feel about it?
Maybe just straight up call him up and ask him if he wants to come? If he was aggressive over your phonecall about your engagement than maybe that was a sign to take into consideration. Ask him, does he want to be there for you… see how he reacts and then go after what your heart tells you.
It’s your big day, both yours and Annas so surround yourself with people that wants to? be there for you!
Jofus, you’re a big boy now leave the drama behind and invite your father. It’s all about forgiveness? and you don’t want to have regrets someday when he passes. It’ll be up to him at that point to join the celebration or be a schmuck.
If he does come and bring the ridiculousness, ask him to leave the wedding immediately, or hopefully have someone do it for you (like your brother? I think you said you had siblings). You really don’t want any negativity at this occasion. Keep in mind, this drama started at his wedding, right? So he might not care if he brings it to yours =S
I think writing a heartfelt letter might help, along w/the invitation – he sounds stubborn =P A letter might allow him to? read and digest your thoughts.
I? say invite him and see what happens. If he doesn’t come then you can be confident that you did your part an he chose not to come. Then you dont have to live wondering “what if”
Hi Jonathan,
I’m probably an internet kid? to you two ( =P) but I’d still like to put my 2 cents in: you can always invite your dad and see whether or not he will accept, but put a condition on it. Tell him that it’s Anna and my wedding, including her parents, and you want to share it with him b/c he is family too – BUT you don’t want any drama on this happy occasion. Pls put our past disagreements aside (even if it’s just this one day of your life) and just be here for me, as my father.
i think a good idea would be to write? exactly how you feel, open up your heart in a letter to your dad. see how he responses and then make your decision
If you feel they would come and ruin your day then don’t invite them. But it seems you really want them there, so could you tell him you? want them to come if they are ready to bury the knife. If someone is going to bring bad energy to your wedding then they don’t deserve to be there even if they are your parents. If Anna feels really strongly against him being there you souldn’t invite him. I’m getting married in less than a month and I wouldn’t want anyone there who is fighting with me.
Johnathan, you’re so inspirational!? I admire the way you turned your life around and became exactly the person you wanted to be. You’re amazing<3
Jonathan! You say “you know” SOOOOO much!! did you know that?! haha
but anyway, I think you should invite your dad… I’m not sure of the exact situation but it seems as if you would like him to be there as he is your dad and if he is mature about the situation he will be there for the big day.. if he isn’t then he won’t come, but at least you invited him! You know what I mean? Let us know how you get? on with it!
i wish i could give you a call and talk about it!i think that since you are engaged with Anna and she is going to be your wife and you are going to start your own family,you should do what makes your wife happy.i think you and Anna are the important things in this? wedding,not who is coming or not.you really dont want Anna to feel uncomfortable at her wedding..that is why we got married at the courthouse with my husband and a friend!!no problemos with anyone!be happy!!